Keep Your Love on: Connection, Communication and Boundaries

This book is an inspired and brilliant tool to help you to tackle the deep issues affecting all relationships and to help build healthier ones. It is also, in my opinion, the start of a revolution. The use of control and manipulation is so deeply entrenched in Western culture that most of the time it seems to us to be utterly appropriate and reasonable. We were likely all raised by parents, taught by teachers, pastored by ministers and governed by politicians who believed that it was their duty to control us. Whether it was used with subtlety and within the parameters of the law, or whether it was outrageously abusive, control and manipulation have sunk their teeth into our deepest and most treasured parts and are actually ripping the heart out of our God-dreamed, God-given, God-paid for freedom to be who we are and let others do the same. This book is wonderful, but it's not for the faint-hearted. Personally, it has set me on a journey to change. I suspect it is going to take some time to even come close to where I would like to be, but I am so grateful and would whole-heartedly recommend both the book and the journey.

This is the most powerful relationship book I have ever read.I experienced different types of abuse as a child and so as an adult my relationships have all been really messed up.Danny has given me the skills to openly communicate my needs to another, using the language of respect. He teaches how to rescue a difficult conversation and even more important than that, I have now realised that I don’t have to tolerate disrespect from others (even if they are my nearest and dearest). No respect means no conversation!I am definitely Committed to emerging as a more powerful person within my relationships, having read this.Thank you so much Danny! 🙏🏾

My husband and I have been Danny and Sheri's fans since we became parents and realised kids had brains. This book is every bit as helpful... If you are married, parents, pastors, leaders or you are just related to someone: this book is a must read. It is practical and challenging, and helps to shape and grow love and self control. You can hear The Holy Spirit through Danny's words and you will be inspired and empowered to reach for more in your relationships by Keeping Your Love On.I am already applying what i am learning to difficult pastoring situations, personal relationships, parenting and to my marriage to grow in love, freedom and connection. It is a must read.

This book is amazing. I just got it 2 days ago and I am already half way through with it and I keep on underlining almost everything.It's like a personal sozo..it makes you stop and think if the environment you grew up in was right and then you pray into it and get set free from mindsets you had no idea they were wrong and destructive. So glad I got this book..I am already recommending it to all of my friends.Felt so good today to have the answers how to deal with T-Rexes lol..this book is revolutionary and it'll change the way we do life and relationships. It's gotta get translated in as many languages as possible!Danny, you are amazing! Thank you for sharing your heart and wisdom in this book!Lots of blessings!LT

I really enjoyed this book and it had a lot of very good thoughts and wisdom. I however have some reservations about the concept of being powerful and I'm uncertain as to whether this is just about semantics - for power read authority or whether it is a very subtle deception as power is what we want as humans and is very dangerous. God wants us to be strong but strong in Him, in Jesus, not in ourselves. I would be interested in the views of others.

Keep Your Love on: Connection, Communication and BoundariesThis book is a must have, currently reading and reviewing it with a close friend and I must say that it is making a difference in my life already. A great book for couples already married and those who are looking to get married. The book also is a great source of wisdom in parenting for parents .On a whole this book is geared towards relationships, building and maintaining them. I highly recommend this book, it will definitely help you to make those changes towards having great relationships.

God changed my life through this book, one chapter at a time. From marital strife towards healthy connection. If you liked 'Love and Respect' then you will love this. If i had a pound for everytime i said 'that's so true' or 'that's me!' then i would be rich enough to buy hundreds of these books and i would give them out on the streets! This book details such vital connection and communication tools that every human should know, yet in a way that is so simple to understand. It leaves you thinking 'how have i survived this long without knowing this stuff!'. I recommend this book to anyone and everyone, Christian or not, male, female, young, old, married, single who wants to keep their love on no matter what! Danny Silk on top form. Thank you for this gift. Worth every penny.

Amazing book. Challenging, but inspiring. Danny's style of writing is to the point but also very funny. This book I believe will bring hope to anyone who is going through difficulty in their relationships that it is possible for them to be restored and healed. It brings a lot of perspective into relationships especially for those in ministry, showing boundaries to set so that our most important God given relationships don't suffer. I would thoroughly recommend this book to everyone, even those whose relationships are healthy, because it will help you to keep them that way. Love never fails! Thank you Danny for writing this book.

I read Danny's quotes from this book on Facebook for maybe a couple of weeks before I realized it was his new book. Of course I had to order it immediately. My life was forever changed after my first encounter with Danny's teaching at a conference ten years ago where I purchased "Directing Vision Daily," (now updated and called "Loving Our Kids On Purpose"). I learned about self-control and it affected every relationship in my life, not just the training of my toddler (now the oldest of four and headed into middle school).Danny has such a powerful message. I call it distilled truth.After a really tough year, moving across country, returning full-time to the workforce after eleven years as a stay-at-home mom, children having issues in school and needing more support, and much more, I found myself very disconnected from my husband and miserable. I watched a You-Tube video where Danny said something that went straight to my heart and I puzzled over it for days, "every relationship has one of two goals: connection or disconnection." I realized that at some point over the past year I switched from the goal of connection to that of disconnection. I knew I should want to be connected, but I did not. After fifteen years of marriage and so many conversations about the same topics and still not being understood, I found myself once again in the place of wanting to give up.The book took a couple weeks to come in the mail, but I read it in two days, hungry for a solution to the problem for which I now had a label: the goal of disconnection. We read Gary Chapman's "The Five Love Languages" about 13 years ago, so that part was not new to me, but Danny's summary of the acts of service love language (many other points too) felt like he was reading my mail. After thinking on all that I had read for a couple more days, I arranged to spend an evening with my husband alone. We were able to have a much needed talk that has put us on a path to reconnecting.By this point in my life and my marriage, I realize this is a journey that will inevitably entail future obstacles. This book has given me yet another tool, one that takes me back to the foundation. The key to keeping my love on is exercising my self-control and behaving as the powerful person I am, not waiting for someone else to rescue me from my misery. Thank you, Danny. I needed that.

Product is as it looks in photo. No complaints. Arrived in perfect condition.

Great book

good book. challenges you to love and to establish the right connections with people. Love is what makes us different from other species!!

When my fiancé and I started dating, our relationship was extremely unhealthy. One of us was raised as a victim and the other as a helper. As a result, I always wanted to dump my problems and responsibilities on my girlfriend, and first she gladly took them, only to realize that soon she would be crushed under the weight. So, we both wanted to work and improve on our relationship, and were so happy when we started reading KYLO. I cannot thank Danny Silk enough for this book. I've read most of his other books and they are great, but this one I'd say, is by far the best. Everyone who is in any kind of relationship should read it at least once in their life.Through this book, Danny Silk gave us great tools:1. to become powerful people who tell themselves what to do and what not,2. he explains the five love-languages in a way that helped us use them to seek connection and remove stress and anxiety from the other person,3. he reveals how a heart-to-heart connection is so much more important than the need to agree,4. to see the value of healthy boundaries and how to set them properly.We found out, as we practiced these tools they have shown to be extremely helpful. We have overcome the victim-helper co-dependency, we discovered the beauty that is in connecting with the other person and appreciating that they are different in the midst of conflict. We have seen that a seemingly small act of service, like sweeping the floor, can reduce a whole lot of anxiety, and how boundaries protect relationships, increase their quality, and let them flourish.One thing from all the things that helped me stood out to me especially, the definition of responsibility. Previously, I was taught that responsibility was to do something you don't want to but you do it anyway. Therefor, I always fled anything that had this tag on it cause I knew it would suck. Danny Silk however likens it to a sat nav that guides you all the way to the destination that you WANT to reach. When before responsibility looked yucky and slimy and smelled funny, now it looks bright and colorful and has an attractive smell.So, if you don't want to improve your relationships, better avoid this book.